I appreciate that you're trying to be helpful. Really, I do. But just a few tips.
-Don't scream in my ear. I wear hearing aids, so it's really not necessary. I can hear you, and that makes me feel like you're angry at me.
-Stop exaggerating your pronunciation. If anything, that actually makes it harder for me to read your lips.
-Don't talk to me like you would to a small child. There is nothing wrong with my mind, and in fact I probably know bigger words than you do. If you don't believe me, you should remember that I attend a top engineering school.
-Look at me and don't mumble when you speak to me. It's just plain polite anyway, but it also makes it easier for me to understand you.
-If you're curious about my impairment, stop staring at me when you think I won't notice (believe me, I do notice) and just ask. I doubt that I would wear my hair short enough for my hearing aids to be visible if I were in any way self-conscious about it. I <i>want</i> you to notice them, because you get less irritated at me for misunderstanding things if you already know.
-Don't get pissy or tease me when I need you to repeat something. It happens. It's nobody's fault. Take a second or two to laugh with me because we both know it's funny, and then move on.
-I am not making fun of your accent and giving you a hard time. I genuinely didn't understand you.
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